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But when people offer you work, it is  hard to turn down.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  So anyway, in the meantime, I have been  doing things like posting my CV on Swedish job agency websites on a  regular basis, and applying online for jobs, Over the past year, I  guess I have applied for about fifty. A reasonable effort I would  say, but I have not had a single interview. Until a couple of weeks  ago....  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  I was putting some shopping in the car,  and my mobile rings. Sounds ordinary doesn&amp;#39;t it, but my mobile NEVER  rings. It always gives me the willies when it does ring, good news  never comes from an infrequently ringing phone. Anyway I had to get  my brain in gear as it was a woman from an agency who had stumbled  across my CV and she was asking me lots of tricky questions in  Swedish. She was saying that she had a job for me that I may be  interested in, &amp;ldquo;..er OK&amp;rdquo; I said trying to close the close the  boot of the car with my chin.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  She asked me down to meet with her in  Gothenburg, which I duly did, which involved mainly padding out my CV  and discussing &amp;ldquo;what kind of person am I&amp;rdquo;. It seems she was keen  to get me to an interview at the company. So we agreed a date/time  over the phone, apart from the oddness that Job Agency Lady (let&amp;#39;s  call her &amp;rdquo;Jal&amp;rdquo;) was going to go to the interview with me, I  really didn&amp;#39;t think any more about it.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  First thing, on Monday, I drove down to  Gothunberg, it takes about an hour and a quarter, for a stress filled  day in a real city. Got to the general location of the job agency, no  parking places. Tried to phone Jal on her office and mobile, nothing.  Great start. Drove to some multi story parking and the mobile rings.  Jal tells me to meet her outside and I will follow her in her car.  Originally I was going to ride with her in her car, which would have  been a lot less stressful than following an ordinary looking Swedish  car (a Saab) through a city full of Saabs.   &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  We arrived at the my potential  employers&amp;#39; premises without Jal losing her self-imposed tail (me). I  shook lots of hands and we sat in a reception area, which turned out  to be the precise location of the interview. Jal knew the level of my  Swedish, and suggested that we did the interview, half in Swedish,  and half in English. The boss suggested we start in Swedish... which  tends to mean in my experience that that was the language of choice,  and I&amp;#39;ll be lucky to hear any English at all. And so it was. But,  people nodded at my poorly constructed answers, they didn&amp;#39;t laugh at  my awful grammar, they seemed to understand what I was saying, even  though I could hear mistakes after I said them.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  The interview seemed to be over, and  the boss showed me around the company, and soon Jal had to go and  pick up her young child from day care, so I was left alone, just the  boss and me. We discussed what the business did, a little more of my  experience, and I think I was offered the job. The offer was lost a  little in translation, I though I was being asked what I felt about  the company, but what I was really being asked was how would I feel  about working there. Well, I kept nodding and smiling, so I got the  job.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  I don&amp;#39;t start for another month, but I  am really excited. I have done what none of my peers have done, work  for a non-UK company, outside of the UK full time, and I did the  interview in a second language. On the way home I was way proud of  myself.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  I am doubly proud of myself, as often  the first job an immigrant secures, is often a low skilled position,  even if they have skills and a good education, getting an interview  without having fluency is really difficult.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  I start in a month, so I have time to  learn what I said I knew on my CV.   &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Joke.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  That is all.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  LostInTheWoods  &lt;/p&gt;  </description><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 11:04:34 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2008/01/04/Job-for-the-Boy</guid><category>(engels)Man @ Work</category></item><item><title>In Demand (possibly)</title><link>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2007/05/16/In-Demand-possibly</link><description>&lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Just had a guy phone me up about some  work in the UK, but he isn&amp;#39;t the first. Often, once they understand  that my geographic location is, erm... permanently Nordic, they  hastily retreat and thank me for my time. This guy launched into a  full on telephone interview, and was trying to talk me out of doing  part time work and do it full time. I agreed, stating when I would be  available.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  I understand he has a job to do, he has  to match up potential employees with companies, so I am used to these  guys talking things up, but this enquiry was different. I am not  going to hold my breath, hope requires effort, and I don&amp;#39;t have  enough energy for that at the moment.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  OK, the tally so far:  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Jobs Applied For:  4  (yeah I know, need to get going with this....)  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Interviews:   1 (I think I will include  the phone one as well.)  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Job Offered:   0  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Rejections:  1 (They placed someone before  the application close date. Gits.)  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Jobs Accepted: 0  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  That is all.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  LostInTheWoods  &lt;/p&gt;  </description><pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2007 14:47:23 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2007/05/16/In-Demand-possibly</guid><category>(engels)Man @ Work</category></item><item><title>New Blog Category, New Start</title><link>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2007/04/27/New-Blog-Category-New-Start</link><description>&lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  OK, after living here for nearly two  years, it is now time for me to find gainful employment with a  Swedish based firm. I have started this category to document how this  pans out... I am optimistic, but finding a job here, where I am going  to have to flex my new found foreign language skills, is going to be,  well, interesting with a dash of scary.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  At school I guess I was considered  quite bright, I know this because I recently found some old school  reports, but the words of praise were often proceeded with the words  &amp;ldquo;Could do better.&amp;rdquo;. It seemed as though the teachers had a &amp;ldquo;Could  do better.&amp;rdquo; ink pad and stamp that they passed amongst themselves  for my reports.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Anyway, the one subject that I couldn&amp;#39;t  understand why I was really poor at was German. At that point Germany  was a place far off that I had never visited, and learning it seemed  like a academic exercise that I was no good at. I remember being kept  behind class one day and being given the finger wagging treatment by  a diminutive teacher (just Google-stalked her, she is still working  as a foreign languages teacher) for handing in really poor homework.  Foreign languages just did not stick... anyway I wanted to pursue a  career in Science, so I guess you can see which way my brain was  wired.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Spin forward about twelve years. I had  a Swedish girlfriend and I was making frequent visits here, and don&amp;#39;t  believe what you&amp;#39;ve heard, not everyone speaks perfect English here.  In the big cities maybe, but I have found people where I am very  reluctant at times to speak English (to me anyway, maybe it&amp;#39;s me?).  So, at an age when it is not normally recommended, I started to  re-wire my brain to accommodate a new language....  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  And it has not been easy so far.. but  for the past nine months or so I have been going to school studying  &amp;ldquo;Swedish for Immigrants&amp;rdquo;, and it has really helped. But I have  seen loads of people who have English as a second language, shoot  past me in their proficiency of Swedish. Tortoise and the hare-esque.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  I am approaching my biggest test. The  whole job thing. I am going to have to speak Swedish everyday,  probably all day. With some help, I have translated my CV into  Swedish, and I have tried (not quite successful yet) to post it  online (yup, still a few issues with the lingo...), and Phase 2 of my  integration here is about to start. Gulp.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  That is all.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  LostInTheWoods  &lt;/p&gt;  </description><pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 03:42:48 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2007/04/27/New-Blog-Category-New-Start</guid><category>(engels)Man @ Work</category></item><item><title>Taa Dah! (or How did I get here?) </title><link>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2006/12/06/Taa-Dah-or-How-did-I-get-here-</link><description>&lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  It seems to me, anyone who can bash a keyboard is blogging.... so here we go, this is my attempt at this new fangled phenomenon.&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;  First  thing you have to do, is select a category for this blog post... seeing  as I haven&amp;#39;t got a clue what to write about (joining the majority of  the blogosphere then), I have gone for &amp;#39;life&amp;#39;, as this might make me  sound deep.  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  As it seems most people  have been blogging for what seems forever, I am not sure what to put in  my first post... but here goes... the title sums up what is coming.  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  About  two years ago, I didn&amp;#39;t make a decision, it kind of crept up on me, and  imposed itself on me. The decision was to leave the town, and more  substantially, the country of my birth. Lots of things came together at  once.... boring but fairly well paid job... even crap accomodation was  expensive... learning a language with little opportunity to use it...  and my girlfriend was kind of missing her home country.   &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  &amp;nbsp;  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  So  I broke the news to all my nearest and dearest that I would be leaving  behind, and it was quite a moving experience. For some it was a  surprise, for some no suprise at all. I choked up telling my father...  and I got very touching messages in my leaving card when I left work.  Some people asked me &amp;quot;When are you coming back to the UK?&amp;quot;. My answer  was truthful, yet sounded odd when I said it out loud: &amp;quot;Erm... based on  current plans... never. (gulp)&amp;quot;.  &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  So  a moving firm was booked, bills paid, plane ticket purchased, most of  our worldly goods sold at local car boot sales or on eBay, and we were  gone... well nearly.  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  One of the last things we did before going was to tell my &amp;quot;Nanna&amp;quot;, who was in her 94&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;  year, that we were leaving the country for good. Her hearing was not so  good, but I think she understood we were going to live abroad, and not  just go on holiday. Sadly, five days after flying to our new home, she  died, and we soon were heading back for the funeral. She was my last  grandparent to pass away, and I still miss her and the two granddads  that my brother and I grew up knowing.  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  So  fast forward eighteen months to now... looking back over the time since  then, many of life&amp;#39;s frustrations have gone, replaced with just a few  minor ones... and life is good. I have now realised, that I do not miss  the place of my birth, just the people I know, and have known there.  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  So  in my next post, I&amp;#39;ll tell you where we moved too, and some of the the  things I have learnt and discovered since getting here.  &lt;/p&gt;        &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  Thank you for reading this post.&lt;br /&gt;  That is all.  &lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0cm&quot;&gt;  LostInTheWoods  &lt;/p&gt;  </description><pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 13:24:29 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://lostinthewoods.instantspot.com/blog/2006/12/06/Taa-Dah-or-How-did-I-get-here-</guid><category>Life</category></item></channel></rss>